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Donor profile

@kingston

Age 34 · Arizona · 5'9" · Brown / Green

"Becoming a parent changed my life — and I know not everyone gets there the same way. I want to help families who've been waiting, hoping, and trying."

At-home shippingIUI / IVF availableWilling to donate at clinicWilling to waive parental rights
As featured inThe CutRomperBustleWell+GoodParents
The difference

A donor you actually know. Not a number in a catalog.

Most donor sites read like a spreadsheet. We put real people first — with photos, stories, and space to talk before you decide.

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With us
  • Real photos, baby pictures, honest bios
  • Message donors directly, at your pace
  • Choose your contact level — open, light, or anonymous
  • Conceive at home (artificial insemination) or at a clinic
  • Know your donor forever — reach out any time after baby arrives
  • Every donor has their own private community
Traditional sperm banks
  • Baby photos and stock silhouettes only
  • No contact — ever
  • Anonymous by default
  • Paywalled catalogs, clinic-required
  • No community — you're on your own after purchase
How it works

From browsing to baby.

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Browse donors

Filter by state, appearance, and contact preferences. Save the ones you love.

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Chat Privately

Honest bios, baby photos, and what they're open to. No guesswork.

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Donor Community

Each donor has an ongoing thread with all their connected families — and the donor too.

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Family Lounge

Chat with all families in the network — no donors allowed. Swap stories, questions, and support.

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Donor Ranking

Rank and keep track of the donors you're talking to, considering, or currently working with.

Network space
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Priya
Family4h
How did you pick your donor?

Curious how other families made the call. Did you go by bio, photos, a gut feeling — or all three?

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Alex & Ren
Family1d
At-home insemination tips 🤍

First cycle next month. Would love to hear what worked (and what didn't) from families further along.

9 replies
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Sam
Family2d
Talking to kids about their donor

Any books or scripts you've loved? Our little one is starting to ask questions.

6 replies
Every family in the network can join. Donors can't see it.
Beyond your donor circle

A lounge for every family

The Family Lounge is a private space where families across the whole network connect — swap stories, questions, and support. No donors allowed.

Completely optional — you never have to participate.

  • Families only
    A space just for families. Donors don't have access.
  • The whole network
    Talk with every family on the platform — not just the ones connected to your donor.
  • Real conversations
    Advice, insemination tips, book recs, hard questions — everything sperm banks leave you to figure out alone.
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A rare kind of bonus

A private circle for every donor

Every donor has their own community space — a place for connected families to share updates, milestones, questions,  and share photos. It's something you won't find at a sperm bank.

Completely optional — you never have to participate.

  • Family circle
    A private chat just for families connected through your donor. 
  • Donor & family channel
    A shared space to hear from your donor directly, ask questions, and stay in touch.
  • Yours, not shared
    Every donor has their own community — invite-only for the families connected to them.
For families — coming soon
Private space
Family circle
FamilyDonor + Family
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Maya
Family2h
I'm thinking of using this donor! 

We are really excited to use this donor!  So far, we he checks all of the boxes for us.  This is our first time, so we are trusting him to ship! Has anyone has successful experience with this?

4 replies
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DonorDrake
Donor1d
Just wanted to say hi 👋

Thinking of all your families this week. Happy to answer any medical-history questions whenever they come up.

7 replies
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Jordan & Sam
Family3d
Anyone in the Northeast?

We'd love to plan a low-key meetup next spring if any siblings are nearby.

2 replies
Every donor gets their own private community. Only connected families can join.

Families who found their donor here

Real stories from parents who matched on our platform.

"We spent months on sperm bank sites feeling like we were shopping. Here we actually met someone. He's part of our story now."

Jordan & Sam
Brooklyn, NY · Verified family

"The bios are so honest. I could tell within a paragraph whether someone felt like a match. That's what I needed."

Avery T.
Austin, TX · Verified family

"We wanted our kid to eventually meet their donor. Everyone here is open to that conversation. Huge difference."

Devon & Riley
Portland, OR · Verified family

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